As the digital age reshapes culture around the globe, South Africa’s Gen Z is walking a fine line between honoring tradition and embracing a hyper-connected, modern identity.
While many still respect their roots, here are five cultural traditions younger South Africans are quietly stepping away from—intentionally or unintentionally.
1. Lobola (Bride Price) as a must-have marriage practice
Traditionally, a man pays lobola to the bride’s family as a sign of respect and intent. While still practiced, many Gen Z couples are choosing to skip or simplify the custom, viewing it as outdated, financially burdensome, or misaligned with their views on gender equality and partnership.
2. Returning to the rural home for initiation or rites of passage
Coming-of-age rituals, especially among groups like the Xhosa (e.g., ulwaluko), remain deeply important to older generations. However, some Gen Z males are choosing to delay or forgo these traditional rites, citing health risks, modern education schedules, or alternative identity expressions.
3. Animal sacrifice at family ceremonies
Ritual slaughter, often done to honor ancestors during important events, is facing increasing criticism and disinterest among younger, urbanized South Africans—especially those who are vegan, environmentally conscious, or influenced by global ethical movements.
4. Respect-based language structures (like avoiding elders’ names)
Traditionally, in many cultures (e.g., Zulu, Tswana), it’s considered disrespectful to call elders by their names. But Gen Z, influenced by egalitarian values and online culture, is increasingly relaxed with titles and formalities—sometimes causing tension with older relatives.
5. Speaking indigenous languages as a first language
While many Gen Zers proudly identify with their roots, everyday use of indigenous languages is declining in urban areas. English and slang-heavy “Tsotsitaal” or “Scamto” dominate social media and pop culture, leading to a quiet erosion of mother tongue fluency.
Final thoughts:
South Africa’s Gen Z isn’t necessarily rejecting tradition—they’re redefining it. While these customs may be fading in practice, many young people are finding new ways to honor heritage that feel more authentic to their current realities.
