Schools have closed and by now all learners have received their reports.
Proud parents have taken to social media to share the news of their children passing but unfortunately, not all parents can celebrate.
It’s a reality that some kids have failed and have to repeat a grade next year.
Receiving news that a child has failed is just as unpleasant for a parent as it is for the child.
While this can be a difficult and emotional experience, it’s important to approach the situation with understanding, support, and a positive outlook.
Here are ways you can help your child navigate this challenging time.
1. Stay calm and supportive
Avoid blaming: Refrain from placing blame on your child or yourself. Instead, focus on finding solutions.
Listen actively: Create a safe space for your child to express their feelings without judgment.
Offer reassurance: Let your child know that you love them unconditionally, regardless of their academic performance.
2. Understand the reasons behind the failure
Communicate with the teacher: Schedule a meeting to discuss your child’s performance, identify areas of weakness, and develop a plan for improvement.
Consider learning disabilities or other factors: If you suspect underlying issues, consult with a professional to rule out any learning difficulties.
3. Develop a positive mindset
Encourage a growth mindset: Help your child understand that mistakes are opportunities for learning and growth.
Set realistic goals: Break down larger tasks into smaller, achievable steps to avoid feeling overwhelmed.
Celebrate small victories: Acknowledge and reward your child’s efforts, no matter how small.
4. Seek professional help if necessary
Consult a counsellor: A counsellor can help your child manage stress, anxiety, and any emotional challenges they may be facing.
Consider tutoring: If your child needs additional support, hire a tutor to provide personalised instruction in the new year.
